如醫生、機長、律師、教授,深信以這些高尚的工作為職業就必定能受到社會的肯定及生活是開心的!!
但事實並非想像的如此,身為醫生、機長、律師、教授...等,其在前期的磨練與學習是多麼的漫長與痛苦
在工作過程中是充滿著許多棘手問題、突發狀況的未知數、背負著他人生命的壓力,並非萬事順心順利~
以前的社會價值觀灌輸給我們,考試得到滿分才算優秀、讀書念到全台前三名校才對得起家人
工作就要成為醫生、機長、律師、教授才是一份能抬的起頭,令別人以你為傲的行業。
而在現今如此開明的時代,這種刻版的價值觀已有改善,但依然還有很多人用那根深蒂固偏見評斷人
若回想起成長時光,在過程中彷彿受到大人的影響,被限制了許多的嘗試,制定了很多的規範
去那個地方不值得,選擇那個行業未來沒有希望,做那個決定會後悔一輩子
不可否認,每位身為父母的都希望自己的孩子能成龍成鳳,在未來有個燦爛的充實人生,
也許很單純的只要知道兒女天天快快樂樂的,就足夠了!
那為何不勇敢的放手,讓孩子能用自己的力量跟能力在這個世界闖蕩
就算跌倒了又如何,在旁給予支持與打氣是最適當的協助,在各種經驗中尋找自己的長處與優勢,
能學習如何在殘酷的社會中殺出一條屬於自己的道路。
那為何不放手一搏,讓他們自己多嘗試,多磨練!
也許在人生道路上選擇不是大家眼中稱羨的工作或行業,但那才是最真誠他想要的。
當勇敢嘗試之後才會更容易發現,什麼才是自己追求的,而且會因此更加充滿熱情與自信的去完成
在能拋開那些社會世俗的枷鎖實,那這個是視野才會更開闊更美好,對於未來才會有更多的衝勁。
我們身邊就有著許多成功案例,值得去了解與吸取相關經驗。
經營之父王永慶,藝人中蔡依林、羅志祥*、林美秀*,主播沈春華,
其皆是拋開社會給他們的標籤,追求自己的夢想,為自己的夢而打拼奮鬥,才能擁有輝煌的成績!
* 羅志祥:我對舞台的渴望,強烈到可以放棄一切
* 林美秀:「笑笑過一天」的人生哲學

The snow glows white on the mountain tonight
Not a footprint to be seen
A kingdom of isolation
And it looks like I'm the queen
The wind is howling like this swirling storm inside
Couldn't keep it in, heaven knows I tried
Don't let them in, don't let them see
Be the good girl you always have to be
Conceal, don't feel, don't let them know
Well, now they know
Let it go, let it go
Can't hold it back anymore
Let it go, let it go
Turn away and slam the door
I don't care what they're going to say
Let the storm rage on
The cold never bothered me anyway
It's funny how some distance makes everything seem small
And the fears that once controlled me can't get to me at all
It's time to see what I can do
To test the limits and break through
No right, no wrong, no rules for me
I'm free
Let it go, let it go
I am one with the wind and sky
Let it go, let it go
You'll never see me cry
Here I stand and here I'll stay
Let the storm rage on
My power flurries through the air into the ground
My soul is spiraling in frozen fractals all around
And one thought crystallizes like an icy blast
I'm never going back, the past is in the past
Let it go, let it go
And I'll rise like the break of dawn
Let it go, let it go
That perfect girl is gone
Here I stand in the light of day
Let the storm rage on
The cold never bothered me anyway
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